Dear Coleen: my wife asked me to wear babydoll lingerie “taste”

Dear Coleen

My wife and I happily married for more than 20 years, we have three adult children.

I always believe that our sex life is healthy and normal. We never had any problems in our marriage, and either of us felt it necessary to talk to each other.

However, recently, my wife asked me if I consider adding the trimmings in the bedroom. ” I asked what she has in mind, she suggested to dress up.

Like many other men, I also imagined the costume of a French Maid and so on, and told her that if she wanted to do this, I’d be happy. But she said she wanted me to dress up, too.

I asked her to give me an example of her mind, she said she would consider me to wear a suit or babydoll lingerie.

I have been trying to support my wife, but when it comes to wear babydoll lingerie, I don’t think I can do.

According to your experience, her request is reasonable? Have you heard of other couples to have a similar dilemma?

I don’t want to let her down, if it is she wants to try, but I think it is too much for me.

Coleen says

Interestingly, I recently received a letter from a male cross dresser who said his wife was very supportive of his sex, and I received letters from people who did make-up and role play. It’s not a problem, if you get into it, but it doesn’t make sense if it doesn’t amuse you or open you.

I understand your fears, and if you reject her, it will cause problems, but you need to tell her that the idea that you’re wearing babydoll lingerie is closed, so you don’t think it will work.

Yes, sex is about give and take, please each other, but it still works for both of you. If you feel embarrassed and embarrassed, it will not help to increase interest, but will have the opposite effect.

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